Women must embrace themselves and know they are smart enough to attain their goals. It’s when they give themselves permission to be real and vulnerable that they break their bindings. Before then, you are constantly trying to protect yourself making sure you sound right, look right and dress right. When you take that off and say” I am good enough, I just am who I am”, that’s when you let people connect. That’s when you show up as really who you are. I think when you are vulnerable, that’s when you are most attractive. Being vulnerable never threatens the fact that I am smart, it just lets people in. It lets people feel my heart.
Ariane de Bonvoisin
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This is dedicated to the NYC stranger, Michael: My knight in shining armor.
Through the growth of this movement we have incredible opportunities to meet both amazing women and incredible men.
On my way to an important meeting with a radio celebrity, I hopped on the subway at Spring Street, NYC. While rushing to board the train, my shoe incident began. My heel got caught in the lip of the yellow painted line at the edge of the platform. I stumbled onto the train and right out of my shoe! Before I knew it I was standing on the train a little shell shocked, missing one shoe. As I turned, the dread flowed through me as I then witnessed, in slow motion, my remaining shoe’s birth twin tumbling with grace onto the tracks. Two men gently ushered me back onto the platform to try to retrieve my now orphaned shoe. I embarrassedly hopped over to the booth and told the unusually attentive MTA worker what happened. She radioed men to the tracks to retrieve it; she stated it would be a while. Using the most feminine and nimble stair hop I could manage, I rose to street level in search of a pair of surrogate shoes. I was never so happy to see H&M! I hopped over there, hopped to the shoe department, bought a pair of cheap flats and ran full speed back to the subway straight to the attendant. “D’re gonna haf-ta stop da trains ta get da shew. Whadda-ya wanna do lady?” I thought of my shoe with a sad mourning. My SIC meeting was vital to the greater good of the SIC community. The interview was important. I knew I had to sacrifice one, for the good of the many. Shoe abandonment; left on the tracks in the filth, with the rats and of course no shoe in sight to keep her company. It broke my heart, but sometimes our hand is forced. I took a moment of silence. “No, please don’t stop the trains I have a very important meeting and I need to get uptown.” She started to say something about the shoe becoming the property of the NYC transit. Right then is when a gentleman handed me a Duane Reade plastic bag and said “Excuse miss I got you a pair of flip flops.” On autopilot, I took the bag and said thank you. In a blink, the man was gone.
Then it hit me: Something wonderful just happened. This man wanted nothing in return. A complete stranger went out of his way to help me; A purely selfless act. I ran to the stairs a shouted up to him, “Hey wait, what’s your name?” “Michael” He shouted back, and then kept going. My thank you to him was not just for the shoes, but for restoring some of my faith in the direction of the world. I heard the train pulling in and I turned to catch it. While I was on the train, both shoes on, I opened the Duane Reade bag and found a pair of black flip flops with little diamond studs along the top. I sat in amazement of what just happened. Though I was running late for this very important meeting, a sense of calm clarity came over me.
My life is beautiful; full of family, friends and strangers helping me get where I need to go. I know I am on the right path.
Smart is Cool -Erin
Obama says smart is cool; he worries nation losing attitude that learning is a privilege By Associated Press 12:19 PM EDT, April 29, 2009 ARNOLD, Mo. (AP) — President Barack Obama says smart is cool, and he worries the country is losing its love of learning.
At a town hall-appearance in Missouri marking his 100th day in office Wednesday, Obama was asked about challenges in education and how he'd make things better.
He talked about having quality teachers in classrooms.
But the president said he worries that the country may be giving up on the idea that it's "cool to be smart."
Have no fear Mr. President, Smart is Cool.
The media has latched on to the term “smart is the new cool.” But we, including the President and his wife, have known that smart is cool period. It’s not a trend or a fad, it’s a way of life. Always has been and always will be.
Smart is Cool:
Understanding and embracing all the unique talents you have in order to make decisions in your life…Smart
Seizing the opportunities that the world presents to you… Cool.
Living the life that you dream of... Smart is Cool
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